1st ear infection

I am so happy to say my kids have never needed a "sick" visit to the doctor. Of course they've had illnesses, but I am certainly not one to rush into the pediatricians office for every fever, cold, rash etc. That's just not me and I have such a high belief that our bodies are meant to fight infection without medicine.

My 3 year old daughter started a preschool program and in the past few weeks she has certainly picked up coughs, runny noses, and a fever. Poor baby :( I've been using my favorite homeopathic remedies for all of her symptoms. Two days ago, she all of the sudden started crying and was extremely upset wanted to be held. She told me her ear hurt and she certainly had a fever. I have an otoscope which I love... I looked into her ear and it definitely did not look good :( That whole day she was lethargic, no appetite, complained her ear hurt, and had a fever around 101 or 102. I gave her belladonna, aconitum, pulsatilla, and chamomile. I also did give her some motrin before bedtime to help with the pain. On Thursday she was back to her normal self... no fever, no lethargy, great appetite. Today is Friday and she's completely normal and says her ear feels better. HOWEVER, she has brownish wax coming from her ear... not pouring out, but I can visibly see it and clean it with a Qtip. I do suspect a ruptured eardrum from everything I have researched, so I called our pediatrician. She did not seem overly alarmed, but did want me to bring her in today to take a look. Against her recommendation, I cancelled the appt this morning. She is acting fine and says it doesn't hurt anymore. From the reading I've done, in almost ALL cases ruptured eardrums will heal themselves without antibiotics and if she isn't showing signs of infection (fever, lethargy, no appetite) then most likely her body is doing just what it's supposed to do! The only thing I cannot seem to find a definite answer on is whether or not I can continue using the ear oil so I'm holding off on that right now. Today I've given her 2 doses of belladonna, pulsatilla, aconitum, chamomile, and allium cepa. I'm making sure she eats a healthy diet (low sugar & low dairy) and drinks plenty of water... she does not like the zinc tablets and I really wish she did... it's a mix of zinc, echinachea & olive leaf. Maybe I could crush it into her food?

Anyway, I'm curious to see how her body does in the next 2 days... if she still has brown wax on Monday we will be headed into the pediatrician. Please know that I am doing what I think is best for my child... if she were acting sick with a continued fever I would have certainly brought her into the doctor today.